This is some of the prettiest manure you will ever see. The Boy has been using Rye as a green manure on the farm, along with the chickens and the goats. This particular chunk of rye, however, is going to be cut and baled and used to mulch other parts of the farm.
Isn’t he cute? I owe a lot of knowledge I have gained as well as the passion I have for sustainable agriculture to him. I like to think that our meeting was a mixture of my curiosity and serendipity all scrambled together. A very fortunate crossing of paths that I give thanks for on a regular basis.
My roommate and I were both (relatively, in my case) recently single, bored, and possessed way too much energy. Naturally this led to the mutual dare to join a free and popular dating site in the hopes of collecting some hilarious stories, meeting some interesting guys, and getting a few free dinners. Hilarity ensued as an onslaught of endearing, terrifying, or simply awkward messages flooded our inboxes.
Roommate was a bit bolder, or perhaps a bit more anxious to get a free meal, and ended up going on quite a few random dates. This included a physics TA, a computer science professor, and a smattering of random undergrads. Eventually she did end up meeting a chemistry TA and mutual affection developed. Last I heard they were in a long distance relationship while he finished up his masters and she went off to veterinary school… so this mutual dare turned out to be a pretty excellent choice for all parties involved.
I, on the other hand, felt that I was too awkward of a first-dater to just go at random. I have enough stories for days about my first date interactions, so my gut told me to wait. Eventually, while doing some general creeping on the site during class, I found there was a guy a few years older than me starting up an organic vegetable farm in my hometown.
I was fresh off the high of taking some environmental studies classes and switching majors to Dairy Science. I was surprised and almost borderline irritated that I didn’t know about this, as our town is not very big at all. And he was cute! Why did I not know about his existence until just then? But despite my initial intrigue, I held back having watched too many episodes of TV where the girl meets the guy from the internet and horrible things happened.
Instead I proceeded to pour over his profile in an effort to see if I could figure out “who he was” in our town. He seemed too good to be true… Tall, has a farm, plays ultimate frisbee, ballroom dances. He had to be making at least some of it up. I happened to be taking a beginner ballroom dance class for college credit, and we needed to go to a few evening dances. Wouldn’t you know it… the boy I had been internet stalking was actually at the ballroom dancing event I was at!

You would think, then, that I would ask him to dance, we would chat, and then live happily ever after. Instead, I felt weird about the fact that I knew all of his hobbies, his occupation, and where he lived… so I just waited until I got home and then compulsively sent him a message. I asked him where exactly his farm was (5 minutes from where I grew up!) and what he thought of Michael Pollan. After a bit of messaging back and forth he asked me to go for a walk, and the rest is history.